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Posted by on Apr 28, 2017 in dating, Uncategorized |

Fell in love online

 

I must be one of the luckiest London in the world. Unlike so many other girls at https://charlotteaction.org, I don’t have a problem holding down a relationship at all. Believe it or not, I actually fell in love online and we get on so great. We are both really into Second Life online. I know it is game and not real life, but there is something which makes it seem really real to me. The persona I am in love with is a member of the online gaming community, and we seem to have so much in common.

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Yes, I know that he is not really real, but to me he seems real. To be honest, I don’t really care that my friends at London think that I am a bit crazy. At the end of the day I think that we are all characters in a game. It does not matter if it is in cyberspace or on in the real world. I have actually met some nice people in real life, but I have met some nicer people in cyber space.

 

I keep on wondering how many other people feel like me. Most of the girls are not into Second Life at all, but I do a couple of male London who are into Second Life. Sometimes we meet up in cyberspace and have a chat. It is interesting to note how some of their personality is reflected in their Second Life characters. I do actually put a lot of effort into my Second Life character as well. It is kind of neat to think that this cyber person is partially me.

 

Why did I get addicted to Second Life? I do like to go out and socialize after I finish my shift at London. But, at the same time, there is a very private side to me as well. It is nice to check out on real life from time to time, and do something different. That is the way that I look at Second Life. I am in privacy of my own home, and I get a chance to be myself. Well, I am not really myself online, but I am a character which is rather similar to me.

 

I have told a couple of gents about Second Life and they have promised to check it out. One of them has joined up, and we have had a couple of dates in Second Life. It was a really cool experience. Of course, when I date my gents from London on Second Life, I am a different character. At the moment, I have go three characters going but I am thinking about establishing a fourth characters. She will be a wicked dominatrix who dresses up as a troll. I keep on wondering if somebody would get turned on by my troll dominatrix. They certainly seem to enjoy the characters that I have created so far, and I have this feeling that they, my gents, would like my new character.

 

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Posted by on Apr 17, 2017 in Blog | 0 comments

5 Steps for Finding Freedom from Porn and Masturbation

xxxchurch - 5 Steps for Finding Freedom from Porn and MasturbationLife would be so much easier if there were a big ole ‘recover from porn and masturbation addiction’ button lying around, wouldn’t it? I know given the chance, many of us would hit that baby so hard it would crush under our enthusiasm. Or maybe frustration is a better word…

But alas, if it exists, it remains a mystery! That’s what brings you here. But, I bring good news, my friend! There is in fact, a big, red button! …It just looks a little different than you may have imagined.

Instead of slamming down on a shiny hunk of plastic, all you’ve got to do is be a STARR:

See you’re not alone,
Tell someone,
Get Accountable,
Recognise pain,
Restore intimacy.

These are five simple statements that will lead you into finding freedom from porn and masturbation. Let’s zoom in on what they mean.

1. See You’re Not Alone

The biggest lie addiction feeds you is ‘you are alone! If anyone knew, they’d be disgusted!’

Not true.

Check out the stats. Chances are, someone (well, a lot of someone’s) in your life, and in your church are struggling too.

Women are especially vulnerable to this lie. They can feel drained of their femininity and balk in the face of struggling with ‘a guy’s issue.’ But remember, one in three visitors to adult websites are female, and between thirteen and twenty percent of Christian women consider themselves addicted! You are far from alone.

This ministry wouldn’t exist if you were the only man or woman struggling. But here we are. Let that sink in.

2. Tell someone:

The Bible refers to Satan as the ‘Father of Lies.’ He works best in the dark where there is no one to rebuke him. When you confess your struggle, you shed light on that dark place and open a space where truth can be spoken! When you tell someone and are accepted, it flies right in the face of the lie ‘You are not worth loving’. It is a taste of the grace of God.

If it were possible to get free on your own, you wouldn’t be here, would you?

Recovery is a team effort. As Craig Gross says, a good story requires more than one character!’

3. Get Accountable:

You need someone on the outside to speak clarity. Your brain is on autopilot, so you need someone to remind you, ‘You don’t actually want this, remember?!’ in those clouded moments of lust. This means having someone you can text or call at any time (even those crazy hours of the morning) when temptation strikes, meeting regularly (over coffee, Skype or phone) to share victories and struggles, using accountability software or joining a group. Accountability means brutal honesty and vulnerability. But it also means freedom.

4. Recognize Pain:

Sexual addiction is an intimacy disorder. Think of yourself as a tree. The fruit is the behavior you exhibit. But apples don’t just grow out of nothing, do they? Their life-force is in the roots. Those who fight sexual compulsion often have their roots in trauma, abuse, abandonment or some other form of ruptured intimacy. Healing comes when you recognize those hidden triggers. It can help to delve into these issues with a mentor, counselor or recovery group. Without dealing with the root, you’ll never heal the fruit.

5. Restore Intimacy:

Recovering from addiction isn’t about cutting something out of your life. It’s about adding to it!

This addition is threefold: With yourself, your community and your God.

Self-intimacy isn’t as inappropriate as it sounds! This means self-love and self-care. When was the last time you believed you deserved to be pampered? Be gentle on yourself, nourish your soul and allow yourself a treat!

Community is vital because shame is isolating. It stops you from engaging with the world like you used to. Community is a healing way to re-enter reality. Enjoy sports, hobbies, activities, church or just having semi-regular coffee with some friends. They will start breathing freedom and hope into your lungs.

Of course, true and lasting intimacy is with God. He knows every image and temptation you’ve faced. And he likes you. He enjoys you! Connect with him however you can, whether that means swearing, running, singing badly, reading theology books or sitting on a beach with him in silence. He longs to come near and hold your heart.

The Bible talks about shining like stars; I’ll bet my hermeneutics are off, but you’ll sure as heck start shining when you use this process of being a STARR. That big, red ‘recovery’ button may not be as far off as you think. Get to it.

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Posted by on Apr 11, 2017 in Uncategorized |

The Perfect Orpington Companion

 

If you are planning a trip to Orpington, you may be looking for the perfect companion as well. Orpington is not only one of the biggest tourist hot spots in the world, but it is also a busy center for business travelers. More business travelers arrive in Orpington on a daily basis than other capital city around the world. The world of the business traveler can be a lonely one, and many business men do look for companions during their stay in Orpington. Orpington has so much to offer like the girls at https://charlotteaction.org/orpington-escorts, and it is a shame to be on your own when visiting this unique city. There are a variety of agencies that can be of help, and you will find escorts from all around the world work in Orpington.

Booking in advance

If you are planning to book a companion during your stay in Orpington it is important to start making arrangements as soon as possible. The girls do get booked up very quickly so to avoid disappointment try to book as soon as you can. If you are a traveler looking for more exotic pleasures, it is absolutely crucial that you book early. Try using premium agencies as they will always have the best and the most beautiful girls available. They will also offer broader services, and you are more likely to be matched with a suitable girl should you choose one of the premium agencies. Agency employees are always very helpful and discreet and will do their utmost to help you find the girl of your choice. It is also very important that you are honest and explain what you expect from your companion. Booking a companion when you travel to Orpington can make a really big difference to your visit. You will probably see more of the city this way and you will also be able to enjoy many of the pleasures which this amazing place has to offer. The girls in Orpington are one of a kind and some are very exotic. If you would like to try something Japanese in Orpington, I am sure there is a companion waiting for you.

Reasons to book

There are many reasons why you should consider booking escorts when you are visiting Orpington. Many of the girls are extremely beautiful and really do appreciate their clients. Most Orpington based escorts know this wonderful vibrant city inside and out, and will be happy to show you around. You will find that many of them have their own favorite places which they like to recommend, but they are equally keen to explore something new.

Services Provided

Orpington escorts provide many different types of services, and both incalls and outcalls are available. Many of the girls have centrally located apartments which are easy to find for a visitor, and most of them are located near or close to many of the luxury hotels. Orpington is a popular part of town, and you will find many escorts based in this area. Other parts of town such as Canary Wharf are more up coming, but you can certainly find services available in this part of town as well.

 

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